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Jeffery was a wonderful father. He is/was great man, with a heart that was so giving. He is the father of twins: Joshus and Renee, and when his children were born he felt so fortunate that they were healthy without any complications that at that time, felt a need to help families that weren't as fortunate as he was and always had a special heart for St. Jude hospital. Now that this gift from our Lord had passed at a young age, we want to do what is right in our heart --- give, because he always gave until he couldn't be with us any longer. Thank you.
Service Information
Public Viewing: ----- Tuesday, Feburary 3rd 1:00 - 3:00 pm Murphy's Funeral Home (http://www.murphyfuneralhomes.com/) 1102 West Broad Street Falls Church, Virginia 22046 703-533-0341
Memorial Service: ---- Tuesday, Feburary 3rd. 3:00 - 4:00 pm Murphy's Funeral Home
Reception following the service
Memorial Site
Rusty (Joseph Harrington) Jeffery's best friend since grade school, created a memorial tribute to Jeff, Please view the memorial site at this location:
Dear Jeff,
How I miss you so..I finally enjoy the nights when all is quiet, that is when I can feel your presence the most.You are close to me, you will never leave my heart..
Gabriel Waters
Tue, Apr 21, 2009
I'll miss seeing Jeff at tradeshows and customer meetings. He's a great guy. The good news is, we'll all get to see him again.
Sweetie
Mon, Mar 02, 2009
Dad:
This one is for YOU and YOU only. I never understood a deeper meaning of this song that we shared when we both felt at our worst...together. However, you loved this song and now I know why. You CAN see clearly now and that is what makes me sleep. I love you and I miss you more than the day I found out of the nightmare. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I can't wait to hug you and see that you finally saw the rainbow you were praying for. :) You are in peace. God is LOVE. HE doesn't do ANYTHING cruel. You fell alseep not of anything mean or unexplainable. You had to fall alseep because YOU got lucky :) Dad, many sleeplessness nights only brings me to understand this one fact: YOU WERE SELFLESS. Now, YOU CAN SEE CLEARLY. You are in peace. Enjoy the vacation :)
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I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.
I think I can make it now, the pain is gone
All of the bad feelings have disappeared
Here is the rainbow I've been praying for
It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.
Look all around, there's nothing but blue skies
Look straight ahead, nothing but blue skies
I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.
Tami
Sat, Feb 14, 2009
Today is a specail day for us, 29 years ago, the doctor gave us the due date of Feb 14 when Josh and Renee were to be born, They decided to wait another week for their grand arrival, It was too cold on February 14 1980, Neither of them still likes the cold :). May you enjoy the warmth of the heavens, We miss and love you deeply
Bob Hunt
Wed, Feb 11, 2009
Jeff,
You were a dear close friend and a brother in every sense of the word. I will always remember our friendship. Please rest in peace.
Tami
Wed, Feb 11, 2009
Jeff,
With each day that passes, I find that I miss you more and more each day. I know you are watching us from heaven above, and I think of that often with every move I make. I will love and miss you as long as I breathe on this earth.
Sandra Auger
Mon, Feb 09, 2009
Walter, Lorraine, Johnathan and Jason
You all are such a wonderful family. Each and everyone of you are special in your own way. I only meet Jeff a couple of times but I felt like I known him for a long time from all the stories you shared with me.
Jason and Renee - what little I knew of your father he seemed to be a special person. I know you will miss him deeply but you will join him one day.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers and love you all so much.
Chester Plauche
Mon, Feb 09, 2009
Jeff,
Though I had only a brief opportunity to work with you, I understand why you were so loved and respected by your family and colleagues. We'll all miss you. God's blessings upon you and your family.
Renee
Mon, Feb 09, 2009
Hi dad:
You are missed beyond any measure. You always gave more than 100 percent to everybody you met. Remember both of us came up with code words to describe our moods? Or, remember all the times we danced and sang Diana Ross songs in the living room? I will always remember how I would say "father" in a faux British tongue but you just couldn't pull off saying, "daugther". Oh, I loved our secret language. Our car rides to many states and just talking about love and life. You always made me feel like a million bucks.
Dad
Sun, Feb 08, 2009
From Father to Son
Oh Jeff, it is too short a time you had on this earth.
The wonderful day of your birth was August 10, 1957 in Allentown, PA. There was a cosmic clock at work because I was delayed from going to South Korea until you were born. This put in motion an urgency to come home to you and Mom. I applied and was accepted to the University of Maryland and granted an early release from the Army. We moved to College Park MD. In 4 years, your dad had a degree and you had 2 great brothers.
You were an adventurous rascal even at 5years old. You loved to play on a swing set. One night after a heavy snow storm you crawled out the window of our low cost basement apartment. We found you joyfully playing on the swing set in you pajamas.
You were an excellent student, played youth football, and came up just short of Eagle Scout. We were so proud of you. We were a skiing family with many memorable trips to NE, CO, UT. You liked to ride our dirt bike which planted the seed for your motorcycling in later life. I will cherish my last ride with you several months ago when you surprised us at our camp site in SC.
You went to Marshal High School in Falls Church VA, played in the band, played varsity tennis and graduated 7th in your class.
With no surprise, you were accepted into the University of Virginia. You graduated with honors in EE.
With a surprise, you choose to get married to Tami at graduation. You started your family and gave us two wonderful twin grandchildren, Joshua and Renee.
Jeff, you totally applied yourself to you family and your work. I can't say more than the wonderful words that were said in the tributes from family, friends and coworkers.
But you did play and you played well at golf.
We had many, many great days on the links with your brothers, Jonathan and Jason. I can't count all the mulligan's you gave us. I know you especial enjoyed our outings at our retirement home, at Hilton Head Island, SC.
One last bit of humor, Jason sent you an e-mail with a picture of President Obama in shirt sleeves in the oval office with the comment, "a good start." The good republican that you were replied, "At least not wearing a jacket in the oval office is better than not wearing pants like some other Democrat :)."
Next to my best friend, Bill Williams, You are the most generous person I know.
Oh Jeff, your kind, generous, loving heart just got so big it brook. I will miss you and love you with every breath of my life.
Dad
Shane Foley
Sun, Feb 08, 2009
JB and family-I am sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I wish you all the best!
Dear Jonathan and Family
Fri, Feb 06, 2009
everyone here at Indigo Pines wish to extend to you our heartfelt sympathy. take care and God bless
Jim & Linda, Rich & Lori and Staff
Alan Baugher
Thu, Feb 05, 2009
Jeff,
You were a wise and wonderful friend. I enjoyed working with you, the conversations, and the challenges/puzzles we overcomed for the last 10 years. You always had a smile and infectious personality that induced many to emulate you. Your popularity was evident by people demanding to get into your classes, the brilliance in picking the right locations, sharing your restless spirit of discovery, and instilling all of us with excitement.
You will be missed.
Jason Bennett
Wed, Feb 04, 2009
Jeff
We grew up together and I will cherish this till I meet you again in Heaven. Jon & I will take care of Mom & Dad & Support your/our Family until we all meet again in Heaven. Rusty & Everyone did you Proud! You are always in my Prayers. Good Night Jeff.....I Love You. I Know You are Resting in Peace
Melinda Mann-Deamer
Wed, Feb 04, 2009
Jeff:
You will be sadly missed. Even though you were several years old than myself, I will never forget how I thought that "Jeff Bennett" was really cool. With the beautiful words that I heard about you, you truly were the coolest older cousin. Thanks for the great memories. I will miss you. Mindy xoxox
Chris Barrick
Wed, Feb 04, 2009
I am sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Phil Tidmarsh
Wed, Feb 04, 2009
I've had the pleasure of knowing Jeff for many years. We only really got to see each other face to face at CA World and no matter how deep he was in what he was doing he always had the time to catch up.
Day to day, Jeff's emails were the ones you took the time to read as they were the ones that explained everything, made sense, and above all had humour to boot. A straight up superstar, scholar, and a gent.
Deepest condolences to all Jeff's family and friends. He will be sorely missed.
Tami Bennett
Wed, Feb 04, 2009
To all the friends, family and colleagues of Jeff, Thank you so much for your donations, more importantly, thank you for all of your kind words, We the family are so touched and filled with gratitude. With your words, we know that the "public" Jeff, was just as kind, generous, gracious, compassionate, and most humble as the "private" Jeff we love ever so dearly, There is a huge void in our lives that will never be filled.
Harold Palmer
Wed, Feb 04, 2009
Jeff's Friends and Family.
Jeff was one of those who broke the mold, because he was a nice guy who finished first.
First in ability. All who knew him are aware of his expertise.
First in teamwork. He was always willing to share and solve the problem.
First in amount of gear. Jeff was invariably the guy with most amount of gear at a trade show. Cards, Readers, biometrics, etc.
Most of all, first in number of friends in business.
The Posse shall miss him.
Joseph Sciortino
Tue, Feb 03, 2009
Jeff,
May God Bless You as you have shared so much with so many people. Anyone that had a chance to meet you was truly blessed.
I would like to share a message that I received from one of Jeff's Customers at a Large Financial Institution in NY,
"You could tell that Jeff was an expert at his trade and he was a professional and a gentleman on top of it. No matter how much we challenged him, he was always the best. Heaven has gained another angel."
I don't think anyone could have summed it up better that this......
Take care my friend. You will always remain in my prayers and thoughts. Rest in Peace and God Bless.
Hadeel Dabbagh
Tue, Feb 03, 2009
Dear Jeff,
For the short time I had the privilege of working with you, I learnt so much from you and admired your skills, dedication and positive attitude. You were always kind and humble and took the time to mentor, and graciously answer the ton of questions I asked without making me feel like a loser for not knowing. You will be greatly missed. We are all praying for your family during this difficult time.
Hadeel
Paul Lee
Mon, Feb 02, 2009
Jeff was my friend and mentor. I have always enjoyed the fun times together. From taking an airboat ride through the Everglades to having dinners at a local sushi place. I know he loved life. He loved his family, friends, his dog, his job, and his motorcycle.
I think he gave me the official title of his favorite P.I.T.A. I'm the guy who asked the stupid questions, while he was the dedicated teacher who continually taught. If I ever stop doing what I do for a living and forget all the technical stuff Jeff taught me, I will remember: "If you ever get into a difficult situation that you need to talk your way out of, just say 3 things:
'Huh?
What?
Oh, please...'!"
May God bless you Jeff Bennett.
Steve Thune
Mon, Feb 02, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family in this difficult time. As for you Jeff, thanks for all of the great friendship and memories from our high school and college days. From sports in our backyards, skiing at Seven Springs, umpiring little league games, zooming around in your VW beetle, fun nights in Georgetown, mudslides at UVA, etc... Your positive spirit lives on in all of us.
Al Lapa
Mon, Feb 02, 2009
God called Jeff back much sooner than we planned, but we must brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand. My thoughts and prayers are with his soul and his family and friends.
Enrique L Torres
Mon, Feb 02, 2009
Jeff was a true friend to everyone that he met and worked with. Everyone at CA will miss him dearly. My family's prayers will mention the health and well-being of Jeff's family in the future.